Well guys, it is time to say good bye. As I have mention in my earlier blog, I am resigning from my current employment. So today is my last working day. Since I have no PC at home, I will temporary stop this blog until further notice. Or until beli PC baru. Or apa-apa je. I will take a short break and start work at Cyberjaya in mid March.

So you people out there, take care and see ya later alligator.

Betapa Pentingnya Seorang Wanita dalam Hidup Seorang Lelaki

Yesterday I received this from my hubby. It is such a good feature article and I enjoyed reading it. Tak tahu dari mana dia dapat but I hope the author wouldn't mind sharing it with others. Engjoy reading.



Betapa pentingnya seorang perempuan dalam hidup seorang lelaki......... DARI SEORANG LELAKI



Teringat pasal satu story...seorang lelaki balik rumah...dia jadi hairan giler..halaman rumah berselerak.. surat di peti pos tak berambil,anak- anak tengah main korek-korek tanah kotor, baju compang camping, penuh dengan tanah dan kotoran rambut tak bersikat, tak bermandi,;;; masuk ke pintu rumah, lagi lelaki tu terkejut..ruang tamu lagi teruk berselerak lelaki itu melaung nama isterinya... .sepi tiada jawapan masuk ke dapur..sinki penuh dengan pinggan mangkuk tidak berbasuh,periuk tidak bercuci. mencari apa yang boleh dimakan tetapi tiada makanan yang dimasak masuk ke bilik air, baju masih belum berbasuh,apatah lagi berendam lelaki itu cemas mencari isterinya..dia bergegas ke tingkat atas, melihat isterinya terbaring di atas katil sedang membaca buku.."awak sakit ke?"..tanya lelaki itu.. "tak lah", jawab isterinya ringkas "kenapa teruk sangat rumah kita hari ni", tanya si suami lagi sambil meletakkan tangan di dahi isterinya, kot-kot isterinya demam.. balas isterinya "wahai suamiku, semalam semasa kita bertengkar, abg mengatakan yang saya ini hanyalah seorang suri rumah, duduk di rumah tidak sepenat diri abg yang duduk di pejabat, dan abg sering menanyakan apa kerja yang saya lakukan di rumah yang menyebabkan saya merungut kepenatan kadang-kadang. ....NAH, HARI INI SAYA TIDAK MELAKUKAN KERJA-KERJA YANG BIASA SAYA LAKUKAN SETIAP HARI....... "



Wanita adalah insan istimewa, biarkan mereka terus membebel,merengek atau mengilai seperti pontianak . Seburuk-buruk perangai wanita, ia akan terus melekat di hati kita selagi hayat di kandung badan... Best baca sampai abis!!!. It's true. To share..Dari Ilham seorang lelaki.. As for me is different, if my wife is not at home, rumah boleh jadik porak peranda. Memang true, jika isteri ada dirumah, kepala slalupening.Pantang kalau isteri ada kat rumah and i'm off duty, sure at times boleh membuat kepala berserabut. Kalau madam takde kat rumah, alangkah tenteramnya hidup ini. Boleh buat apa yang kita suka. Boleh belengkar kat depan TV tanpa sebarang gangguan mental dah fizikal. Pendek kata,FreeeDoMmmmmla h!! But hairan bin ajaib, when dia betul-betul pergi meaning "She's Gone",aku pulak terasa separuh mati. Sehari dua memanglah shiookkkk, no one shouting from the kitchen for help, no one to komen this and that, no one to criticise. Everything will be smooth...



Tapi, masuk hari ketiga, I felt something is missing. Lebih-lebih lagi bila tuala mandi dah berbau 'assshheemmmm' , tak tahu mana nak carik yang baru. Colgate gigi dah abis,tak tahu kat mana dia stock up Air suam dah abis, malas nak boil...



Masuk hari ke-4, rindu mula terasa. Eventhough kat office, ramai yang cun melecun,wajahnya yang dah ditatap sejak tarikh bernikah itu juga yang mengetuk pintu hati. Memang lah dia tak se-cun SITI NURHALIZA but the smile yang ikhlas,forever melekat kat hati and sukar ada pengganti. Apabila rindu mencengkam, semuanya jadi tak tentu arah. Tengok TV citer best pun jadik tak best. Nasik bungkus faberite jadik tak faberite. Makan kat 5 star hotel jadik rasa cam makan kat kedai AA. Lebih-lebih lagi bila laundry basket dah makin bertimbun ngan baju kotor, fresh sluar dalam pun dah abis utk dipakai. Toilet dah mula licin berdaki...lantai dah berbelak, tak dimop...



Everynite, very the lonely, baring atas katil nengok ceiling blindly... bila lonely gini, baru lah rasa benar kesepian. Jangan kata sebulan atau setahun....belum seminggu isteri takde kat rumah, aku dah terasa separuh pengsan. Bila bersendirian begini,dan terasa malam begitu dingin, barulah kita sedar betapa pentingnya seorang wanita bernama isteri...begitulah isteri kita rasa bila kita tinggalkan dia sendiri malam2 agaknya ya..



So guys out there... jgn buli isteri kita. Kalau boleh, tolong dia buat kerja rumah. Bukan dok depan TV every weekend baca paper. Apa ingat dorang ni sumer kuli ke?! Maid ker?!! Kan dia tu bini kita, best fren kita,sweetheart kita... Ingat duit hantaran yang kita kasik dia masa nikah dulu cukup ker nak bayar gaji dia seumur hidup??!! And furthermore, kan sama2 keja carik rezeki, sama jugak lah buat keja rumah. Kadang2 bila poket kita sesak, tak ingat ker dialah orang yang paling terdekat kita nak kenyeng-kenyeng duit. Tak kesian ker nengok bini kita? Dah ler satu hari keja kat office, balik kena buat keja rumah lagi...penat tau!! Kalau aku lah diberi peluang jadik seorang wanita...tak rela!!! So to all mums and wives out there... life will be meaningless without you .



Finally my hubby finished it with,

I love u kutuk :*



Me: I love you back!

Marilah Kita Mengundi

8hb Mac 2008......Hari mengundi. Jadilah rakyat berguna dengan mengundi. You have the voice to decide for tomorrows generation.

Yang mana satu pilihan hati? Bulan? Roket? Dacing? Lain2?

Siapa tak daftar atau mengundi....jangan cakap banyak ye....Your opinion does not matters! So jangan nak banyak komen...ini tak betul, itu tak betul. If you want your voice to be heard jadilah rakyat malaysia yang berguna, daftar dan undi. Tapi nak daftar dah lambat....rugi diri sendiri je.

Harap2 semua proses pengundian akan berjalan dengan lancar! I am so excited. This is the second time I akan mengundi.

POK TEH

Yesterday there was death in the family. Dato Nasir was my hubby’s uncle and he passed away yesterday morning. Innalillahiwainnalillahirojiun……………It was a moment of reflection for me, how GOD gives and how later he takes back what is His. How fragile ones life can be. Semua itu adalah qada dan qadar ketentuan sejak azali lagi.

In fact baru malam semalam, my hubby tertanya-tanya macamana keadaan kesihatan Pok Teh. We last saw him during Hari Raya Puasa. He was hopitalized then.

I may not know Dato Nasir who was a teacher turned politician very well but I can see he is loved by his close-knit family. He was 81 years old. There were a small excerpts in the STAR paper and also by BERNAMA dated 26/2/08.



Former Melaka State Assembly Speaker Dies
MELAKA, Feb 25 (Bernama) -- Former Melaka State Legislative Assembly speaker Datuk Nasir Manaf died of old age at his house in Taman Peringgit here today. He was 81.Nasir who breathed his last at 9.30am is survived by his wife, Datin Fatimah Isa, seven children, 11 grandchildren, and two great grandchildren.
His son, Zainal Abidin, 53, said his father had been undergoing treatment for heart ailments at the Putera Medical Centre here since six months ago. Nasir, who served as the state legislative assembly speaker from 1997 to 1999, was buried at the Durian Daun Muslim Cemetery here this afternoon.Among those who paid their last respects were Melaka Chief Minister Datuk Seri Mohd Ali Rustam, former Melaka state legislative councillor Tan Sri Ahmad Nordin, and incumbent Member of Parliament for Tangga Batu Datuk Idris Haron, who will be defending the seat in the election on March 8.
Mohd Ali described Nasir's death as a big loss to the state as he had contributed a lot to the well-being of the people.He added that he was contemplating naming a school or some other landmark in Melaka after Nasir as a tribute to him.A former Kota Melaka Umno chief, Nasir had also served as a senator from 1983 to 1989 and president of the Melaka Datuks Council.-- BERNAMA

Track Best - RABAK

Rajin pulok dah nih.....Dua posting ari ni je. Bukan apa excited gile punya dah dapat belajar camne nak post lagu ke dalam blog,.........so ada satu lagu ni dah lama i dapat and suka sangat dengor. Tapi tak tahu siapa penyanyinye. Ada suara cam REM anda jugak cam CASEY..ummmmph! so my hubby called it TRACK BEST - RABAK. Sebab member dia Rabak yang download lagu ni dalam mobile hubby I. Kalau ada yang tahu cite sikit kat sini. Thanks.

My Funny Valentine

I know, I know Valentine's Day dah lepas! But I would just like to share my collections of all time favorite love songs.

Valentine’s Day to me is like kalau ada duit nak celebrate, celebrate la. Kalau pokai....,buat cara pokai. My Valentine's Day just came and passed by swiftly.

Me : Happy Valentine’s Day, ayah!
Hubby : Happy Valentine’s Day, mummy!

Hihihi, tu je la……..This year I gave my hubby a valentine’s card. When I read it at the shop I told myself this is hilirious. Must buy it!.Must buy it! I pun boleh imagine my hubby's reaction-he's gonna to have a heck of a laugh reading it. This is what written on the card,

When I bought this card for you
To show you my affection
I put it in the envelop
Then licked the sticky section

My tongue slid from right to left
And then from left to right
At first I licked it softly
Then I licked with all my might

I licked it really slowly
And I licked it quickly too
And every single second…I imagine it was you!

Trashy kan......kutuk, you live up to your reputation, hihihi.......

In return I received a key chain with an orchid embedded in the middle (the orchid has gone through a special foliage process to preserve the freshness of the flower). The flower was tastefully arrange to create a stunning range of lasting beauty. My hubby said, lagi best sebab bunga tu tak akan layu or mati sampai bila2. Ini kes nak jimat beli bunga untuk I forever.

However mana pun orang lain pertikaikan hari valentine’s ni, religiously or not……it’s up to the individual la. Ada yang kata haram sebab you meraikan hari St. Valentine kerana ini bukan ajaran atau berlandaskan ajaran Islam. Memang betul tu.

But for me hari ini bersamaan dengan hari PEMBAZIRAN. Tapi tak pa pembaziran yang boleh dimaafkan sebab mendatangkan manafaat kepada both parties. I scratch your back you scratch mine punya kes.

Well speaking from a woman point of view, hari kebesaran cam ni aweks definately aspect something cam bunga. Tipula kalau cakap,"....tak pa kalau u tak bagi pun tak pa...."Boleh blah!

1. Bunga pun bunga ros. Ia melambangkan cinta....chey! Selalu warna merah la! Kalau setakat satu kuntum tak main la…mesti nak satu dozen. Hari tu bunga mau melambung RM10-RM12 sekuntum. Dah terbang RM120.



2. Valentine's card is a must...bolehla feeling2 skit. (RM10-RM15 for a damn sexy card!)



3. Pas tu kena beli hadiah. Cokelat tak main la……..takut gemuk! Hihihi....at least something in ‘gold’, music box ke, perfume ke, lingerie ke etc. (RM20-RM2k....hihihi mak oiiii mampus-ha nak sangat, ambik ko!)



4. Pas tu nak bagi hadiah kena pulak bawak dinner. Dinner mesti la special sebab tak kan nak bawak ke kedai mamak atau kedai tom yam tepi jalan. Abok suit. Dah la dressing macam nak rak, mekap cun-cun and perfume berkati-kati, tak kan makan situ kot. Paling busuk pun Pizza Hut. Kalau pergi hotel jangan la cakap….Set dinner for 2 person pun beratus.

Brabis sakan....So kalau ada awek janganla memanjakan dia selalu nanti merana badan. Bila dah biasa dengan 1st class treatment....nanti depa expect over the moon ke, sky ke punya treatment. Bila dah kahwin semua tu dah tak matter lagi. Dah dapat, apa nak cakap lagi....mula la tak sayang i lagi la sebab u tak bagi I bunga,....kenapa tak macam dulu sebelum kahwin....., mula ungkit mengungkit.

I ingat cite orang dolu2, masa belum kahwin and berjalan berduaan si awek terlanggar batu then jatuh. Si pakwe akan memaki batu tu. Tetapi bila dah kahwin, si bini terlanggar batu and jatuh, bini kena maki pulak, " Oi buta ke dah tak nampak batu?". So pengajaran tu semuanya.

People always say if you want to show your undying love to someone be it your spouse, girl or boyfriend, you don’t actually have to express/show/wait only on Valentine’s day. Biar tiap-tiap hari tu Valentine's day. Lagi bagus kalau you keluarkan kata pujukan rayu tu. Tak adala boring sangat. Seram da......

But the problem with our society, not everyday we appreciate or show love to our partner. That is why celebrating a day such as Valentine’s tu ok jugak. Biar your partner berhabisan untuk menunjukkan kasih saying dia. Or just a suggestion, pick another day as your own Valentine’s day for both you and partner only to celebrate. Amacam? Doesn't have to be 14/2!

Obviously, as a women, I too want to be wine and dine, as per say. I am not an expensive person but I like my Valentine’s day to be a special one. Bare with me cause I want to share you my imaginary Valentine’s day. Ahaks!

Step 1 : Bangun je pagi dah ada Valentine’s card and satu rose next to my bed. Kalau ari cuti, lagi bagus kalau dapat breakfast in bed. Hihihi……Shakira will pujuk me for the rose. Ambik le!

Step 2 : Tengahari ada one bouquet of roses arrived atau hadiah delivered to the house or office depending where I am on that day. A phone call will follow. Jangan hantar chocolates atau doughnuts sebab nanti Shakiel belasah abis.

Step 3 : Getting ready to be wine and dine. Curi2 keluar so that the kids tak dengar both hubby and myself sneak out. Kalau dia orang tahu…..satu taman boleh dengar suara dia orang meraung.
Step 4 : Dinner will be at an itallian restaurant…ahaks! Oh maybe not. I imagine a cruise on Putrajaya Lake. Ala….cruise boat yang ada restaurant makan tu! Not an expensive person, am I? Who am I kidding?

Step 5 : Romance. Hihihi…..kat mana? Ada duit gi hotel je kalau tak kat bilik tido pun dah cukup bagus. Pasang CD tapi sekarang CD player dah rosak so pasang radio le. Dengarla sekali suara DJ masa make out. Telinga kena pasang sekali, kot kot nanti budak dua ekor tu nanti bangun and bursting into our bedroom while…..you know what……potong stim je la.

Anyway whether you wish or not wish to celebrate, terserahlah. Enjoy my collection of love songs.

Ready or Not – After Seven
Vision of Love – Mariah Carey
Could I Have This Kiss Forever - Whitney & Enrique
More Than Words – Extreme
Fly me to the Moon – Frank Sinatra
Lady in Red – Chris De Burgh
You’re My Everything – Santa Esmeralda
Here and Now – Luther Vandross
Is this Love? – White snake
Sea of Love – Honey Drippers
Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton
Everytime you go Away – Paul Young
From this Moment – Shania Twain
My Valentine – Martina Macbride
Sweet Love – Anita Baker
Just the Way you Are – Billy Joel
Ketulusan Hati - Anuar Zain
Love Makes Things Happen – Pebbles and Babyface
Suddenly – Billy Ocean
Cherish – Kool & The Gang
Dari Sinar Matamu – BPR
Kasih – Dayang Norfaizah

Happy very belated Valentine’s Day!